Falling out of love is okay !

The other day I was in a meeting with some friends of mine and something caught my attention. A lady next to us happened to be complaining of falling out with her guy. The question the people they were with had one common question, was he cheating on her? So it interested me.

This is the question most people have when they first hear of someone talking about falling out with their partner. And it really turned out that was never their issue. There are so many other things leading to that.

This is the story, the lady and her guy are in a relationship for almost five years now. They, just like other relationships have had their ups and down. But they have broken up severally. The relationship seems to be toxic or should I say they love each other so much to leave each other.

The lady also considers the guy unromantic and even has thoughts that the guy might not love her as much as she does. This makes her have doubts of whether she should even be in that relationship in the first place.

The lady says she has tried talking to the guy though indirectly about the issue but nothing seems to change. On the other hand the guy says he loves her so much and wouldn’t risk losing her for anything. This love is not as complicated as most of us might see it. It is not smooth either.

The truth is however, they need guidance from a professional to help them with their issues since it is clear the lady is slowly falling out of love which is mostly contributed by her seeing the guy as one who is not willing to change for her. If we can get the guys side of the story, maybe he is really trying but the lady isn’t recognizing the efforts.

One thing is very clear though, the falling out of love in this case is not at all contributed by cheating.